EP. 10 | How Can I Forgive Them Without Them?

What if forgiveness didn’t start with a conversation—but with quiet surrender no one else sees?

In this immersive and deeply personal episode, Jonathan Kindler explores the quiet, often misunderstood practice of forbearance—the Spirit-led choice to forgive without confrontation, resolution, or even acknowledgment. Through layered storytelling, biblical insight, and sound-rich scenes—from the unsent text to the stubborn scrape under a Band-Aid—we enter the tension of letting go when the other person may never “get it.”

Drawing from the restraint of Jesus before Pilate, the wisdom of Abigail, and the mercy of Joseph, Jonathan reveals how forbearance isn’t weakness—it’s courageous trust in God's timing, God’s justice, and God’s healing. He walks us through five practical anchors to help you forgive without them—not by pretending it didn’t hurt, but by entrusting the pain to the One who sees it all.

If you’ve ever held back words that felt justified, stayed silent out of faith not fear, or wondered how to release something when reconciliation feels impossible—this conversation is for you.